Gain the courage and insights
to trust love one more time.

The time has come to stop re-living the pain of relationships past.

Put your time into learning from mistakes and getting new tools,
so you can successfully find a partner who is far more right for you!

Get the research-based tools which helped me -
and the many thousands who have used them!

Stop your pattern of feeling fooled, hurt and alone. Find (and maintain) a happy, safe-feeling relationship. This digital course is for BOTH men and women, single and/or divorced – or even in a toxic relationship.

What Experts Are Saying

"Karen Salmansohn's advice for regaining your footing after a life set back is smart, do-able and even fun. Chock-full of mood-lifting exercises designed to increase self-awareness and enhance resilience, Karen makes clear that we all have inner strength, once we know how to access it."

- Lucy S. Danziger, Former Editor-in-Chief, Self Magazine

"Life is full of surprise challenges – and Karen Salmansohn offers some informative research from the world of resilience psychology to help ensure you bounce back from tough times stronger, better, happier!"

- Marci Shimoff, NY Times Best Selling Author and Expert in THE SECRET

"Karen Salmansohn is a delightful, innovative guide to transformation. She will lift your spirits at the same time she focuses your path in the truths, challenges and opportunities found in everyday life."

- Sharon Salzberg, Co-Founder of the Insight Meditation Society

What Students Are Saying

"I discovered Karen Salmansohn when she offered this relationship course on NotSalmon.com as The Blindspotter Program. Her methodology proved to be insightful, helpful and fun. Unlike traditional therapy, Karen's laser focus and sense of humor made it possible for me to get quickly and effectively past childhood abandonment trauma, which haunted all my adult relationships. My favorite assignment was one she called "The Pendulum."

- Deborah K., Charlotte, NC

"For years I was feeling as if I’d get taken advantage of - both in personal and professional relationships. I desired more balance in the "give and take" and also wanted to be more assertive. I found Karen’s relationship program when it was called Blindspotter Program - and found out that I had 2 issues. Firstly, with what Karen calls “pendulum swings” (I wouldn't speak up at all - or I'd speak up too strongly). And "pain softeners" (I’d tell myself “this is OK - it's not so bad” - when my life could be much better). Karen helped me to realize how early on I learned not to trust my own feelings - because they had been invalidated by one of my parents. Karen seemed to get into the heart of things very quickly. Although Karen talked about deep issues, I always enjoyed a laugh or two. I gained a TON of insights about my pattern of anger, numbness, regret, rumination, repeat. Karen helped me to better find “the middle ground” in relationships. I would recommend Karen – a thousand times YES!"

- Colleen R., Rye, NY

"Years ago I happily stumbled across Karen Salmansohn and her Prince Harming Syndrome book. I read the book and felt that Karen went deeper than most relationship books. She looked at your patterns - including asking yourself why you may fall into relationships which may become toxic to your well-being. So fast forward a few years later when I am single and seeking love help. I thought why not go to one of the best, Karen Salmansohn! Karen knows how to hold up the the mirror we all need to face. She gently helped me to be more 'honest' about my love patterns. It's nice to have a gentle guide on my continuing love journey."

- Sophia H., Sacramento, CA

I created this course as a sequel to my bestselling Prince Harming Syndrome book, which was recommended on Oprah.com and Psychology Today.

You’ll gain a range of research to help you steer clear from sociopaths, narcissists and emotionally unavailable partners.

I'll teach you how to both vet 'em and forget 'em!

WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT:

  • Learn how to forgive the past (childhood incidents, ex-partners, and yourself)
  • Trust your ability to spot a good partner (and trust your ability to attract them)
  • Feel more positive energy to put into your day (because you’re not distracted by the negative energy-suck of your “complicated” relationship)

Live a life you love!

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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts once you enroll and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course. You decide when you start! Plus, you decide when you finish!
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to the course materials for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We’re in the happiness business. We never want you to be unhappy! If you implement our tools and are dissatisfied for any reason, email us within 30 days for a refund.
How long will I have to wait for VIP access?
We expect to open enrollment in just a few months! Sign up and you’ll be the first to know! Plus, to sweeten the deal, you’ll get priority placement and 10% off.